This Could Be the Biggest Obstacle to Doing Your Best Work
My last post, How to Not Be a Slave to Your To Do List, was written just as much for me as it was for you. So I’ve taken my own advice. I cleared space on my calendar. I eviscerated my to do list and calendared time to do the stuff I’ve been wanting to…
What Happened to Me When the Bottom Fell Out
A little over a year ago, the bottom dropped out of my business. Many of my biggest contracts came to an end, and it seemed nothing I tried was getting anywhere. The programs I designed weren’t filling, or would run into major snags just as they were about to get off the ground. I had…
What To Do When You Just Can’t Do Another Thing
“When I’m not running in circles, I’m pretty much collapsing in a heap.” That flew out of my mouth one day when I was on a call with a few of my friends trying to find a time to get together. They told me it should be the title of my next book. And yet,…
How to Get (and Stay) in Your ZONE
A few weeks ago, I posted an article about feeling your fear and doing it anyway. I wrote that after going months without writing a single word for my blog. I thought I wanted to write. I loved the idea of writing. But the truth is what I really loved was the idea of having written.…
How To Leverage Life’s Little Roadblocks
There is major construction underway at the end of my street on into the main road that leads in and out of our neighborhood. It is blocking our normal traffic route to everything and has tripled the drive time to places I frequent every day, like my office, my kids’ school and the grocery store. …
A Better Way to Win
My daughter and I played a game called Rummikub the other night. If you have never heard of it, you’re not alone. The games I remember playing as a kid are Monopoly, Life, and maybe an occasional card game of Go Fish or Gin Rummy. Rummikub is kind of like Rummy, except instead of cards…
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway
Every day when I pull into my garage, my headlights illuminate a box of solar garden lanterns my father bought for me for Christmas a few years ago. Every time I see them I am reminded that I need to set them up. But something stops me. I don’t know what it is, really. Maybe…
Suddenly Simplified: Living Without Complication
After our kids finished school for the summer, we decided to take a last minute road trip to California. It was late in the afternoon, and we needed to leave right away if we didn’t want to be driving into the wee hours of the morning. I wasn’t packed and the house was a mess. …
Real People, Real Businesses, Real Success
Have you ever noticed that some businesses, stores, restaurants, and people make you feel good simply by virtue of coming into contact with them? Well, I have. There’s a little coffee shop around the corner called Carmels that I adore. The owner is a guy named Pat. He remembers my name, and looks me (and…
Dead Plants and Other Missed Opportunities
Sometimes life’s greatest lessons come to us in simple, yet profound ways. This week’s video is about an insight that hit me during a rather lame attempt I made with gardening. I hope you enjoy it! Here’s what I said in the video: See this? I bought it two weeks ago. I was…