Be the Light in the Darkness

  Sometimes despite our best efforts, things go awry.   Be the source that raises the level of energy of those around you. Utilize Desire, focus and courage to help yourself and others.  Watch this video for tips on becoming the light in darkness for those around you. If you would like to learn more about

How to Embrace Your Brilliance (without becoming arrogant)

  The lights are dimming and the crowd begins to hush. Music blares from all corners of the dark, expansive room. A spotlight illuminates the stage and cuts a circle in the red velvet curtain that falls from the ceiling above. In front of that curtain are proud parents and antsy siblings squirming in their

How to Stay Confident Around People Who Intimidate You

  Most of us have people in our lives that for whatever reason lead us to temporarily lose access to our fully functioning brains.   You may find that in their presence, words suddenly escape you.  Or worse, they seem to pour out of you like diarrhea or projectile vomit, leaving you to feel even more

How to Develop More Confidence

  Every day offers us a new challenge and an opportunity to see what we are made of. Some days more than others.  Think of all the resources you have at your disposal to rise up to these challenges.  You have your intellect, style, wit, humor, strength, resilience, patience.  You have friends and colleagues, family

A Sure Fire Strategy for Overcoming Fear

  This week’s post features a video that I initially didn’t equate with getting out of fear.  In fact, I originally titled the video From Self Absorbed to Self Empowered.  But after writing last week’s post, A New Way to Look at Fear, I realized that this video is actually a demonstration of one of the best ways I know to get out of fear.  It’s

A New Way to Look at Fear

  One of my favorite places to go on holiday weekends is Prescott, AZ. On one such trip with my mother and daughter we walked through an art festival in the town square. The place was dotted with people and their dogs, meandering from booth to booth, admiring the wares and taking it all in.

Four Tips for Tapping Your Reserves in the Most Challenging of Circumstances

  Have you ever been faced with a challenge that all but brought you to your knees? One that tested every ounce of grit, determination and courage you had? Often these types of challenges are not something we volunteer ourselves for (at least not knowingly). And yet, we find ourselves immersed in them with no

How to Cross the Brink of Change

  Are you at your wits end in your job, career, relationship, life in general? Experiencing delays, frustration, confusion, and even a little fear? Well, you might be closer to achieving something amazing than you think. This week’s video post continues the play by play in the life of a caterpillar that I started on

Are You On the Verge of Transformation?

  Do you ever feel like you are in the middle of some kind of transformation, but not yet clear on exactly where you are going and what form things are going to take? Speaking from my own experience, it can be a bit unnerving when you are in the thick of it. You may

How to Survive and Thrive in Change and Chaos

  We have all experienced times of pressure, anxiety and sudden change. When jobs are tenuous or organizations are restructuring, it might feel as though life itself is turning upside down. Frustration and turmoil is a common response to this kind of uncertainty and disorientation. It can lead to exhaustion and hopelessness. But consider this